What a Woman wants...

What a woman looks in a man
By Diana Melara

Endearments, company, a nice treat, a shoulder to cry on, sweet words, security and stability are just some of the aspects a woman expects from a man. The way the man treats the woman marks the difference between a wonderful and a tortuous relationship. No matter how hard a man tries to understand a woman, he is just unable to provide all the things she needs. Why? Well, maybe he is not paying attention to those little details such as: asking about her day, complimenting her about the way she looks, telling her how smart she is, and how much he loves her, but mean it. When a man does all those things, he will certainly notice a big happy smile on his beloved woman.

When you ask: “how was your day?” you are showing to your woman that you are interested in her. Ask to know about the difficulties and achievements that she had during a long day’s work. As you have maybe noticed most of women are good at talking. They enjoy listing all the events that happened to them during the day. They expect a good listener or a confident partner in some cases. Every woman has something to talk about, and if a man is ready to listen carefully, he will probably gain a lot of points.
Few men are really concerned about a woman’s feelings. They do not pay attention to all the things that a woman wants to talk about. In fact, most men or at least macho ones, think that a woman’s head is just to do her hair. So if you are planning to make a woman happy, avoid thinking like that. You should appraise her and try to agree with her comments, opinions, or complaints.

Making a woman flattered is complex for men because men must know when and how they should compliment her. This means that there are compliments that a woman is interested in listening to, but there are others that are just out of context. For example, when a woman has a date, she spends two or more hours to appear attractive and sexy. And she does everything to catch his eye. Therefore, she is expecting at least a nice word about her dress, hair, face or else. If the man does not mention a word, she will feel the ugliest person in the world. So, try to say nice things to your woman such as “wow! how beautiful you look today, or God really show me His love when putting you in my way” things like that will really touch the woman’s heart. But if you just say “you look different today, or hey! nice dress”. She will probably feel nothing. Remember that a woman always expects sweet and deep words that can stretch her heart.
Nevertheless, “Say it” is not enough to show a woman how much a guy loves her. Loving a woman means to understand her, becoming a shoulder to cry on, being there for her when she feels alone, amusing her when she wants to cry, and giving her strength to believe she can. Without forget to say the magic words “I love you”. What I mean is that words and actions must become together. A woman wants a poet but also a superhero. A woman wants a man who taking care of her is his first priority. Most women dream with a blue prince, an actual prince; not a man that offers the moon and the stars when he is not even able to buy her a candy. Specifically, men should never promise anything if they are totally unlikely to comply. No woman can become happy with a liar beside her. If you really love a woman, show it to her with actions. Do not cheat on her, do not play with her feelings. Be always honest because she will really appreciate it. Therefore, convince her that you really love her with details like giving her roses, chocolates, a letter or maybe something made by yourself. In other words, surprise her every day.

There are a lot of things that a woman wants, yet some of them are not related with a man. However, when a woman is concerned about what she wants from a man, she will be really strict, capricious and even demanding. Why? Well, because if a man really loves a woman, he will do anything to please her.